As some of you would have seen, if you watch my TikTok and Instagram videos that is, I had a new styling done on my hair. I REALLY love my hair and the fact that is it well nourished. Getting a full-on new style done on my hair though, well I put a lot of trust into  my hairstylist   hair and the people that compliment and give advice as what to with my hair. I know this is totally random, but I have a point. If I put all my trust into someone who handles one of the important things in my life, I know that I’ll be ok. Considering the fact that I had to shave off all my hair when I had my operation done, I value all the healthy hair I have. I have major trust issues wo  this  wasn’t  the easiest but I did it.

Now to the main point of why I am telling you this totally pointless and random story. Trust is a fickle thing that we have to deal with care, obviously, because there can be a lot to lose. The biggest thing when it comes to our lives is knowing who we can trust. It applies to friendships and relationships with people for different reasons. Although having trust means that you are willing to let the other person in completely. Letting the person in on your problems, secrets and all that has meaning to you. That lets the other person to have a close bond with you.

Trust can be placed in the right and wrong people; this is what makes it so tricky. We do not always know who the right and wrong people are. Letting our trust in others lets the most hidden and covered parts of ourselves to collide with the other person and it’s their choice on whether they can handle the collision. Some will be greater than others which doesn’t make it easier. Having the access to the parts of yourself that you struggle to show, gives the other person the power to either help you for the better or they could use these things against you. It’s all up to what happens after you let go of your trust into their hands.

Trust can be made stronger or weaker depending on the after effect of the person gaining your trust. It’s up to their choices and actions that our ability to trust balances on. Like walking a tight rope, you either make it the whole way or you fall.

 “Trust is a fragile thing, don’t break it because it will never come back in its original shape.”

From my experience I can back this quote. Therefore, always be careful around who you trust. Sometimes it will be easy to trust but other times, not so much. You must not get broken or be the breaker of trust. In the case of trust, it’s a mystery whether you make the right decision or not, of who to trust, until it is too late. The ball is in your court, so be careful before your shoot.